Is ‘The New Normal’ Too Gay?

Shockingly the ‘The New Normal,’ a comedy on NBC about a gay couple trying to start a family, is under fire by gays for being too gay. Some in social media and a recent Out Magazine post lambasted ‘The New Normal’ for playing into gay stereotypes.

Out Magazine cited such horrible stereotypes as gays being wealthy, materialistic and having lots of disposable income. That’s not too bad. I mean do certain ethnic groups really hate the stereotype of having a large dong.

The real crux of the argument against the show, I feel, is when Out describes one of the characters as an “effeminate man-boy.”  My observations tells me some gay guys feel gay  couples on TV should be betrayed as two macho guys who just happen to be into dudes (i.e. Brokeback Mountain). It’s offensive to some gay people that ‘The New Normal’ has one guy that is a bit vein, into fashion, worked out and likes to have nice things.

The reason they have this feeling may be from their hypersensitivity to how the world-at-large will perceive a gay person, thus the show’s portrayal will be how the world will actually perceive themselves. Since “macho” or “normal” gay guys don’t want to be perceived as “effeminate” they are expressing their outrage at the show.

The “effeminate” (Out’s characterization) played by Andrew Rannells is really not that over the top–he seems like a guy that I could actually know. I think Rannells does a fine job with the character by not taking it to the extreme. The show also balances out Rannells’ character with his life partner who is not into fashion, loves sports and is a gynecologist. Between the two characters it shows gay people come in all types.

Gay people’s problems with the show is more of reflection on how they fear people perceive them, rather than any stereotype the show is thought to portray.

In reality kids aren’t being bullied at school for having excessive income, great bodies or vanity, they are being bullied for being “effeminate.” Those kids are considered not normal. How does something become normal? You have to be exposed to it. To be honest the first time I saw two guys kiss on TV (Melrose Place), even as a gay man, I was weirded out a bit–it wasn’t normal to me. But over time as gay characters became more prevalent on television I became accustom to it, in a sense desensitized to it. The more society is exposed to “effeminate” (a word which I hate) characters the more society will become desensitized to it, so it might be seen as, lets say, the New Normal.

Don’t Miss

Lady Gaga No Fat-Checking

Is Queen Elisabeth To Be More Feared Than The Taliban?

An Olympian Might Be The Next Spidey–Someones Not Happy

Ryan Lochte Disappoints a Nation

Battle of the (Olympic-Sized) Bulge

It’s Official Most People Want to Sleep With Ryan Lochte and Phelps is Pissed

P.S. the post is not a total puff piece because I think Andre Rennells is really really cute. :)


10 thoughts on “Is ‘The New Normal’ Too Gay?

  1. Pingback: Olympian Danell Leyva Wants to be Spider-Man markatlarge

  2. Pingback: Ryan Lochte Makes A Major Faux Pas at Fashion Week markatlarge

  3. scarib

    The new normal is definitely different than Will & Grace and crosses the line into overindulgence. Whenever you try to shove too much of something down the throats of people, they will likely vomit. Just be a person, gay or straight, and people will be more accepting.

  4. J J

    I watched this thinking I wouldn’t like it. But the New Normal is brilliant. Funny, sweet and touching. I think what everyone has their panties in a twist about is the fact that the show has 2 men kissing ***gasp*** (yes that seems to make gay men uncomfortable about what people might think)
    Unlike other shows that have a chaste little kiss on the cheek, these characters give each other tender affectionate kisses. They also stand up to a bigot in episode 2 that is wonderful. It is the best new comedy on television.
    Get over it queens. The writing and acting makes it a great show.

  5. Pingback: Lady Gaga No Fat-Checking markatlarge

  6. Pingback: Marc Jacobs’ Porn Star Boyfriend Gets To Meet Lady Gaga markatlarge

  7. Pingback: ‘The Voice’ Is All About The Voice–Unless You’re Really Hot markatlarge

  8. Pingback: Turns Out Lady Gaga Is Not Fat markatlarge

  9. Pingback: Justin Bieber Sings And Pukes At The Same Time markatlarge

  10. Pingback: Markatlarge Tweets The Debates markatlarge

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <s> <strike> <strong>